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Resist: 
Using Sauro II on Genius is to make use of the counter disable on it without consuming it with Iniliba and it gives more HP and damage, Gashadororo on Licht Armor for the Delay which slightly boosts resistance and for increasing MaxHP and the slight RC from it, Gashadororo on Cuirass is to make use of the damage cut chance of 1/2 and for similar reasoning as for armor. I've had Iniliba replaced in a few of the equipment but with paladin skills added on I went well above the cap, 110%+ when all skills are used with the set. Iniliba had almost the same process rate as Cuirass does, at times it had an even higher process rate. With the set I have around 500k+ HP, 10k+ MP, 50% melee/magic resistance, 80%+ RC, 1/2 damage cut, damage disable, and delay buff unbuffed. In another post it clearly states why the so-called resist set is using one Iniliba in each piece is due to it reducing damage by 1/4 per not just because of its +10% melee/magic resistance. With 500k+ HP using thick revita (m), unbuffed, heals 75k+ which is usually enough to counter the amount of damage I am sustaining. Setup alone gives -2s skill/item delay. 

Disable: 
Again, using Sauro II for more HP and other stats. With my setup I have 40-50%+ on autoskill when adding in 6 purple lines, BL/RL, and around 18% from AIs. Given that if the 6 purple gives 6% autoskill, without BL/RL, I'm still within the 40-50% necessary for it to function properly, I would have around 60% autoskill when boosted with BL/RL. Not sure if I should perhaps exchange the Bodyguard Cordal with Gashadororo instead for more HP and RC over 6% autoskill.

Enormous Axe: 
Using the same concept of the disable set to increase shellbreak rate while also maintaining around 400k+ HP while also having a decent disable rate from Dragon Mail and Ensis Shield. This if playing with my enchanter friends makes it very valuable to me as I can keep up with damage while also fulfilling my duty as a tank, around 60% Hate. Enormous Axe has a 10% chance of shellbreak as stated in its status so it's around the same as disable from Dragon Mail, having reached around 40-60% autoskill means with an enchanter's buff it goes to 60-80% making it a very good weapon to have.

Knight Oath: 
Fairy Tale World Spoon gives 20% to all elements, elemental xtals on Monty Beret gives 30%, and Wild Ring gives 10% to all elements. Use of other xtals is for HP to reach past 120k HP so as to take more damage and such. Not as strong as using specific elemental weapons, sword or bow, but it means I don't need to carry an extra 6 weapons to get about the same or 10-20% more on an element. 

Holy Thrust: 
Attack has a small role in Holy Thrust unlike MaxHP does. Bellow of Order gives resistance and a raw attack bonus from Strength but Chainmail provides a small RC as well as 30% MaxHP allowing for my MaxHP to reach past 350k, unbuffed. The main focus on Holy Thrust is MaxHP and Light Magic, if using Large Shield the attack from Bellow of Order which is already pretty useless, around 4k5kish attack total, as it will cut that by 25%. Holy Thrust's damage starts being affected once it drops below ~350k HP, I have about ~400k HP which gives me about 50k HP of damage I can take before the damage is affected. 

The only set I try to get higher attack on is Knight Oath as it depends on having HP low. I've thought about putting back Iniliba on my resist set but may wait until Ira II comes out to use in armor as it won't interfere with the delay buff. As said somewhere, majority of paladin's damage comes from their MaxHP aside from Knight Oath. Guardian is a bit weird in this department as I can use pretty much all five sets to do around the same damage. Element, attack, and HP all affect it so it's a bit weird as it can't be said to have an actual set. Maybe we can figure out a way to make use of the new hammer, +5% to Guardian with mediocre stats seems kind of off putting but it might have its reasoning too. Sorry I didn't properly explain why each set was made the way they were and if it was confusing. 

I use Wild Ring with Fairy Tale World Spoon only because the negative stats on it is somewhat balanced out with the stats on FTWS. FTWS is also a normal sword so the only thing I would get from using a Myrica Wristlet is the HP and Def but do remember that with how the set is set up it'll have that -20% RC. I only really use it on lower HP bosses, ~2m HP and under, for a slightly faster farming. Ring of Rush isn't ideal as it takes away around 100 DEX and only gives ~200 ATK when you take away the 100 DEX. Oath doing decently high damage anyways the +10% melee to element does go a pretty long way. I get Raw ATK from Bellow of Order, Nigdu, and Monty Beret. For maximum damage HP has to be low anyways so even with using Myrica Wristlet or other MaxHP boosting special you'd get 1-shot from a strong hit anyways. I would use a Myrica Wristlet if I had a good enough special sword for decent oath damage and more survival though.

Never said he needed 8 iniliba. Just saying he should substitute enough xtals so he can cap res. That's the point of res gear. To cap melee and magic res+%. Of course, your suggestion is good too.